Bill - Since I'm a competetive bodybuilder, I'm going to give you the extreme answer. STAY AWAY from milk! It's not the fat or lack of fat but Lactose, which is nothing more than a simple sugar! It make me and MANY people have thick/smooth skin.
Cottage cheese is a woman's food

Eat 8 egg whites instead. At your size you should be taking in AT LEAST 400g of 'good' protein. I'd suggest adding some milled flax to your protein drinks. I'd try to target 3000 calories a day. Besides protein and fats mentioned, make up calorie diffrence in 'good complex' carbs like oatmeal, yams and long-grain brown rice. Stay awat from WHITE BREAD!
Now that's the extreme suggestions for extreme results. I'm competing tomorrow and have gotten down to 3.5% BF and am VERY DRY. I've been doon this for many years, so you can take it or leave it - most people leave it because it's TOO HARD.